Funerals are by definition sad occasions. It is a time to reflect on the life of the deceased, a time when everyone who knew them to come together to celebrate their life.
It is also usually a time when the whole family comes together, like births and weddings, and can take an interesting turn given the right set of circumstances.
And, depending on how old you are at the time, you could start reflecting on your own mortality, and how much or how little time you have left, and, quite possibly, what it is you have or haven’t done with your life.
Perhaps the question should be, are you going to put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
The sad fact is, we all do. We all believe we will have plenty of time to get things done, with a motto of, old enough to know better and young enough not to care.
What happens when you die at 44?
It’s one of those questions that we face when attending the funeral of the daughter of one of my in-laws.
It’s a well-known fact that a great many of us look forward to retirement, and having reached that age, generally in the mid to late 60’s, that we will be settled in our life, all major commitments completed, we will be in reasonably good health, our children will be old enough to look after themselves, and we have an adequate retirement plan to see us through to old age.
Until then, we sacrifice a great deal, spending our time either working, or helping our children on their way to an equally successful life.
There never seems to be time for those holidays overseas or doing those things near and dear to us, putting it off till ‘tomorrow’.
No one realizes ‘tomorrow’ never comes.