365 Days of writing, 2026 – My Second Story 9

More about my second novel

We are now up to the part where we introduce Isobel properly and find out why such a talented person is drifting in the doldrums of Rupert’s private detective agency.

Aside from being a once high-flying legal eagle, she is also a computer hacker, or perhaps that’s what she evolved into in a devil finds work for idle hands type person.

This hacking is going to be useful, but it’s also going to bring problems, especially when she starts tracking down Zoe.

And, it seemed she had struck up a dark online relationship with another hacker with the handle Tzar.  What are the odds he is Russian?

She’s digging for information, and Tzar helps, and, suddenly, it appears, briefly, then is gone, with a warning.  Stop digging.

And if she doesn’t.

People were coming for her.

Meanwhile, in the basement, Zoe has had enough time to devise a mask that might stave of the effects of the gas long enough to effect an escape.

And, it almost works, the mask that is.

She manages to get past all of the guards, but Romanov is waiting.

He doesn’t kill her, but he does give her some information, then leaves.  He knows how dangerous she can be, especially when wounded.

What I learned about writing – Some days are great, a lot are not

Great are the days when writing flows easily, and bad are the days when it doesn’t flow at all. What you’re striving for is somewhere in the middle.

If that is at all possible.

Conditions have to be conducive, which means it doesn’t necessarily follow that you can write just anywhere.

That means you need, if it is at all possible, to set up a little or big writing nook somewhere in your residence where you can write.

It doesn’t necessarily have to be free of distractions, except, of course, the electronic kind.  Of course, if you are writing on a computer of any sort,t it would be better if it were not connected to the internet, where every few seconds there’s an alert, an email, a phone call, or breaking news headlines.

Nor do you really want to be near a phone, except if you’re expecting a call from your agent telling you you just got a multi-million dollar three-film contract.

OK, I’m projecting my own desires here…

But…

A writing room or nook would to me be a room with a view, my preference overlooking the ocean high on a cliff so that I could see the roiling ocean and dhimips battling against the odds.

Distraction.

Not necessarily, but on summery days it can provide the background for a lengthy piece of prose, or even a poem, an ode to days of leisure.

And to dream…

Yes inspired.

In such a computable and familiar place, it is possible to write without hindrance.  I do not have a room with a view, but I am surrounded by a thousand books, lounge chairs, and the tools to inspire me.

Writing isn’t difficult. It’s more about getting out there because the daily routine often gets in the way

But my best writing happens at night after everyone has retired for the day, and the words come.  Often, it is no trouble to write a whole short story or several chapters of a novel.

But, then, having participated in the yearly A to Z blog month and twice yearly NANOWRIMO novel writing month has conditioned me to getting the job done. 

365 Days of writing, 2026 – My Second Story 9

More about my second novel

We are now up to the part where we introduce Isobel properly and find out why such a talented person is drifting in the doldrums of Rupert’s private detective agency.

Aside from being a once high-flying legal eagle, she is also a computer hacker, or perhaps that’s what she evolved into in a devil finds work for idle hands type person.

This hacking is going to be useful, but it’s also going to bring problems, especially when she starts tracking down Zoe.

And, it seemed she had struck up a dark online relationship with another hacker with the handle Tzar.  What are the odds he is Russian?

She’s digging for information, and Tzar helps, and, suddenly, it appears, briefly, then is gone, with a warning.  Stop digging.

And if she doesn’t.

People were coming for her.

Meanwhile, in the basement, Zoe has had enough time to devise a mask that might stave of the effects of the gas long enough to effect an escape.

And, it almost works, the mask that is.

She manages to get past all of the guards, but Romanov is waiting.

He doesn’t kill her, but he does give her some information, then leaves.  He knows how dangerous she can be, especially when wounded.

365 Days of writing, 2026 – 58

Day 58 – Self motivation

The Hidden Engines that Keep Writers Moving

Why some authors seem to write on autopilot while others need a constant push


Introduction

If you’ve ever stared at a blank screen while a friend’s manuscript slides from page 1 to page 400, you’ve probably wondered what the secret sauce is. Sure, deadlines and a good editor can prod a writer into action, but the most prolific word‑smiths never rely on external pressure alone. They’ve cultivated internal “motors” that keep the ink flowing even when the muse is on vacation.

In this post we’ll unpack the less‑obvious levers that power a writer’s stamina: mindset tweaks, environmental hacks, social circuits, and ritualistic anchors. Think of them as the invisible gears that keep a writer’s engine humming—no alarm clock required.


1. Purpose‑Fuelled Writing (The “Why” Over the “What”)

The difference between goal and purpose

  • Goal: Finish a 2,000‑word article by Friday.
  • Purpose: Communicate a message that changes the way readers think about climate justice.

When the purpose is vivid, the work becomes a conduit rather than a chore. Ask yourself: What will happen when this piece lands in a reader’s hands? Write that answer down and keep it visible on your desk.

Practical tip

Create a “mission card” (index‑card or digital note) that states your purpose in a single sentence. Place it where you start writing every day. When resistance spikes, glance at the card and let the larger mission pull you forward.


2. The Micro‑Commitment Loop

Large projects feel intimidating because the brain treats them as a single, massive decision. Break the task into micro‑commitments that take 5–10 minutes each:

Micro‑commitmentHow it works
Open the document and type the titleSignals the brain that the work has begun
Write one sentence describing the opening sceneReduces the “blank‑page” anxiety
Set a timer for 7 minutes and draft a paragraphCreates a low‑stakes sprint
Highlight the paragraph you just wroteProvides instant gratification

The loop is simple: commit → act → reward (the reward can be as subtle as a mental “yes!” or a sip of coffee). Over time these micro‑wins accumulate into a full draft without the need for a looming deadline.


3. The “Storytelling” Habit: Treat Your Life Like a Narrative

Humans are wired to seek stories. If you start seeing your own day as a plot, you’ll naturally want to move the story forward.

  • Act 1 – Morning routine (setup)
  • Act 2 – Conflict (the “write‑or‑don’t‑write” dilemma)
  • Act 3 – Resolution (the first 300 words)

Write a one‑sentence “scene description” for each block of time you plan to work. For example: “In this scene, the protagonist (me) battles the distracting siren of social media and emerges with a fresh paragraph about the protagonist’s childhood.”

When you treat each writing block as a scene, you get the same momentum you’d feel watching a thriller—because you are living one.


4. Environmental Triggers: Design Your “Writing Habitat”

a. Sensory Anchors

  • Sound: A specific playlist, white‑noise, or the hum of a coffee shop can become a Pavlovian cue. Play the same 30‑second intro each time you sit down.
  • Smell: Light a scented candle (citrus for focus, sandalwood for calm) only during writing sessions. Your brain will associate that aroma with productivity.

b. Physical Boundaries

  • Dedicated space: Even a small corner of a couch can become “the writing nook” if you only ever sit there to write. The space itself becomes a trigger.
  • Desk posture: Sit upright, feet flat, screen at eye level. The subtle physical alertness reduces the temptation to slump into procrastination.

c. Digital Minimalism

  • Use a distraction‑free writing app (e.g., iA Writer, Scrivener’s “Compose” mode) that hides menus and notifications.
  • Keep a “browser whitelist” with only essential tabs (research, reference). Anything else is a deliberate, timed “break” activity.

5. Social Magnetism: The Power of “Writing with Others”

You don’t have to be in a co‑working space to benefit from community; you only need accountability signals.

MethodHow to Implement
Writing buddyPair up with a peer. Agree on a weekly word‑count exchange and a short debrief call.
Word‑count streaksJoin a public platform (e.g., NaNoWriMo, Camp NaNoWriMo) and post your daily totals. The fear of breaking a streak is a strong motivator.
Live‑stream writingOpen a Twitch or YouTube “write‑with‑me” stream. Knowing an audience is watching forces you to keep the keyboard moving.
Micro‑review circlesShare a 200‑word excerpt every two days for quick feedback. The anticipation of feedback fuels forward motion.

Social pressure isn’t about shaming; it’s about creating a network of tiny expectations that keep you honest to yourself.


6. The “End‑Game” Visualizer

Imagine the finished piece, not as a distant abstract, but as a concrete moment:

  • The cover page of a printed manuscript on your bookshelf.
  • An email notification that a publication accepted your article.
  • A reader’s comment that says, “This changed my perspective.”

Write down this visual in vivid detail (colour, sound, emotions) and place it where you start writing. When the words start to feel heavy, pull that mental image forward. It’s a form of future‑self alignment, where today’s effort is mapped directly to tomorrow’s payoff.


7. Energy Management: Write When You’re Naturally “On”

Not all writers thrive on a 9‑to‑5 schedule. Track your energy peaks for a week:

DayTime SlotEnergy Level (1‑10)Writing Output
Mon7‑9 am81,200 words
Tue2‑4 pm6500 words
Wed10‑11 am91,600 words

Schedule your most demanding drafting sessions during the top‑tier slots. Use low‑energy periods for lighter tasks (research, outlining, editing). Aligning work with natural rhythms removes the “I’m too tired to write” excuse entirely.


8. The “Zero‑Draft” Mindset

Perfectionism is the silent killer of motivation. Adopt a zero‑draft approach:

  1. Write anything—even nonsense.
  2. Label it “draft 0.”
  3. Commit to moving to draft 1 after a preset time (e.g., 30 minutes).

Because the goal is just to get something on the page, the inner critic stays quiet. Later you can sculpt, cut, and polish. The key is to remove judgment from the first pass; judgment belongs in revision, not creation.


9. Rituals that Signal “Start”

ritual is a repeatable, symbolic action that tells your brain: “It’s go‑time.” Some writers swear by:

  • Brewing a specific tea before the first paragraph.
  • Lighting a candle and reciting a single line of a favourite poem.
  • Doing a 2‑minute physical stretch or a short walk around the block.

Pick a ritual that takes less than five minutes—long enough to be meaningful, short enough not to become a procrastination loop. Consistency turns the ritual into a cue that bypasses decision fatigue.


10. The “Feedback Loop” of Intrinsic Rewards

External validation (likes, publication acceptance) is a nice bonus, but the real driver is an internal reward system:

  • Progress markers: Each 500‑word milestone triggers a small celebration (a piece of chocolate, a 5‑minute dance).
  • Narrative ownership: Remind yourself that the characters, arguments, or scenes belong to you—you are the creator, not a clerk.
  • Learning curve: Notice how each session adds a new skill (a tighter sentence, a more vivid metaphor). Celebrate that growth.

When you consciously notice these micro‑wins, dopamine floods the brain, reinforcing the habit loop without any external deadline.


TL;DR: Your Personal Motivation Blueprint

SecretHow to Activate
Purpose‑fuelWrite a mission card and keep it visible
Micro‑commitments5‑minute sprints with instant rewards
Story‑frame your dayTreat each block as a narrative scene
Sensory/environmental cuesConsistent sound, scent, and space
Social magnetismBuddy system, streaks, or live‑stream writing
Future‑self visualizerPaint a vivid picture of the finished piece
Energy alignmentWrite during natural high‑energy windows
Zero‑draft mindsetRemove judgment from the first pass
Start ritualsSimple, repeatable cues (tea, stretch, candle)
Intrinsic feedback loopCelebrate progress, skill gain, ownership

Closing Thought

Motivation isn’t a mysterious force that appears only when a deadline looms. It’s a network of tiny, repeatable habits and mental tricks that you can design, test, and refine. The moment you start treating writing as a system—rather than a solitary act—you’ll find that the words begin to flow even on the days when the muse seems to be on holiday.

Give yourself permission to experiment with the tools above. Pick one (perhaps the mission card) and commit to it for a week. Then add another. Before long you’ll have assembled a custom‑built engine that powers your writing, deadline or no deadline.

Happy writing! 🚀

What I learned about writing – So here’s the deal – you’re not as good as you think you are

I can attest to that. I’ve been through a story a dozen times, and still, there is something to be changed, or a detail or nuance missed. Our eyes play tricks on us; they seem to see what you want them to see rather than what is there.

It’s why we have other people look at our work.

Everyone can get hold of a style manual, a thesaurus and a dictionary.

My biggest bugbear is continuity and names, plot timing, and making sure events happen when they’re supposed to, not just when you write about it and hope it fits the timeline.

I have a problem with that right now with a story I’m writing, where people are living the events in two different time zones, and I need to get it right.

This is where a spreadsheet comes in handy, because you can use a formula to work out the time in a different time zone and run the event timeline in both zones.

It’s always great when the pilot tells you just before you land what time it is at the destination. Scary too sometimes when you’re flying from Brisbane backwards through time to London and find you’re landing 13 or so hours before. I left at 10 pm, and I’m landing at 5:30 in the morning on the same day.

A surefire way of discovering what your text sounds like is to run it through an AI text-to-speech converter and listen. When it sounds really weird, and it will at least once, then you know where to fix it.

Searching for locations: Port Macquarie – Day 1 – Part 1

In keeping with the new travel plan, we are picking places in Australia, where we can exchange our timeshare week.

Some people consider timeshares as a waste of time and money, and the process of getting one is very painful, which it can be. 

Certainly, in some of the places we have gone, they tried hard to sell you another which can be a downside to staying, but the fact we get to stay in a three-bedroom fully kitted apartment of bungalow for $200 for the week far outweighs the small inconveniences.

Previously, we stayed at Coffs Harbour, but this time, we decided to stay at Port Macquarie.

Our bungalow, as they are called, is on the edge of the lagoon, which has an island and has been stocked with fish, though I doubt we would be allowed to go fishing in it.

For the more adventurous, there are canoes.  I think I would prefer the BBQ, and watch the planes taking off and landing at the airport just on the other side of the tree line on the other side of the lagoon.

At least they are only smaller planes like the De Havilland Dash 8.

And, knowing the airport was only minutes away, we dropped in for a quick photo op and got the following

365 Days of writing, 2026 – 58

Day 58 – Self motivation

The Hidden Engines that Keep Writers Moving

Why some authors seem to write on autopilot while others need a constant push


Introduction

If you’ve ever stared at a blank screen while a friend’s manuscript slides from page 1 to page 400, you’ve probably wondered what the secret sauce is. Sure, deadlines and a good editor can prod a writer into action, but the most prolific word‑smiths never rely on external pressure alone. They’ve cultivated internal “motors” that keep the ink flowing even when the muse is on vacation.

In this post we’ll unpack the less‑obvious levers that power a writer’s stamina: mindset tweaks, environmental hacks, social circuits, and ritualistic anchors. Think of them as the invisible gears that keep a writer’s engine humming—no alarm clock required.


1. Purpose‑Fuelled Writing (The “Why” Over the “What”)

The difference between goal and purpose

  • Goal: Finish a 2,000‑word article by Friday.
  • Purpose: Communicate a message that changes the way readers think about climate justice.

When the purpose is vivid, the work becomes a conduit rather than a chore. Ask yourself: What will happen when this piece lands in a reader’s hands? Write that answer down and keep it visible on your desk.

Practical tip

Create a “mission card” (index‑card or digital note) that states your purpose in a single sentence. Place it where you start writing every day. When resistance spikes, glance at the card and let the larger mission pull you forward.


2. The Micro‑Commitment Loop

Large projects feel intimidating because the brain treats them as a single, massive decision. Break the task into micro‑commitments that take 5–10 minutes each:

Micro‑commitmentHow it works
Open the document and type the titleSignals the brain that the work has begun
Write one sentence describing the opening sceneReduces the “blank‑page” anxiety
Set a timer for 7 minutes and draft a paragraphCreates a low‑stakes sprint
Highlight the paragraph you just wroteProvides instant gratification

The loop is simple: commit → act → reward (the reward can be as subtle as a mental “yes!” or a sip of coffee). Over time these micro‑wins accumulate into a full draft without the need for a looming deadline.


3. The “Storytelling” Habit: Treat Your Life Like a Narrative

Humans are wired to seek stories. If you start seeing your own day as a plot, you’ll naturally want to move the story forward.

  • Act 1 – Morning routine (setup)
  • Act 2 – Conflict (the “write‑or‑don’t‑write” dilemma)
  • Act 3 – Resolution (the first 300 words)

Write a one‑sentence “scene description” for each block of time you plan to work. For example: “In this scene, the protagonist (me) battles the distracting siren of social media and emerges with a fresh paragraph about the protagonist’s childhood.”

When you treat each writing block as a scene, you get the same momentum you’d feel watching a thriller—because you are living one.


4. Environmental Triggers: Design Your “Writing Habitat”

a. Sensory Anchors

  • Sound: A specific playlist, white‑noise, or the hum of a coffee shop can become a Pavlovian cue. Play the same 30‑second intro each time you sit down.
  • Smell: Light a scented candle (citrus for focus, sandalwood for calm) only during writing sessions. Your brain will associate that aroma with productivity.

b. Physical Boundaries

  • Dedicated space: Even a small corner of a couch can become “the writing nook” if you only ever sit there to write. The space itself becomes a trigger.
  • Desk posture: Sit upright, feet flat, screen at eye level. The subtle physical alertness reduces the temptation to slump into procrastination.

c. Digital Minimalism

  • Use a distraction‑free writing app (e.g., iA Writer, Scrivener’s “Compose” mode) that hides menus and notifications.
  • Keep a “browser whitelist” with only essential tabs (research, reference). Anything else is a deliberate, timed “break” activity.

5. Social Magnetism: The Power of “Writing with Others”

You don’t have to be in a co‑working space to benefit from community; you only need accountability signals.

MethodHow to Implement
Writing buddyPair up with a peer. Agree on a weekly word‑count exchange and a short debrief call.
Word‑count streaksJoin a public platform (e.g., NaNoWriMo, Camp NaNoWriMo) and post your daily totals. The fear of breaking a streak is a strong motivator.
Live‑stream writingOpen a Twitch or YouTube “write‑with‑me” stream. Knowing an audience is watching forces you to keep the keyboard moving.
Micro‑review circlesShare a 200‑word excerpt every two days for quick feedback. The anticipation of feedback fuels forward motion.

Social pressure isn’t about shaming; it’s about creating a network of tiny expectations that keep you honest to yourself.


6. The “End‑Game” Visualizer

Imagine the finished piece, not as a distant abstract, but as a concrete moment:

  • The cover page of a printed manuscript on your bookshelf.
  • An email notification that a publication accepted your article.
  • A reader’s comment that says, “This changed my perspective.”

Write down this visual in vivid detail (colour, sound, emotions) and place it where you start writing. When the words start to feel heavy, pull that mental image forward. It’s a form of future‑self alignment, where today’s effort is mapped directly to tomorrow’s payoff.


7. Energy Management: Write When You’re Naturally “On”

Not all writers thrive on a 9‑to‑5 schedule. Track your energy peaks for a week:

DayTime SlotEnergy Level (1‑10)Writing Output
Mon7‑9 am81,200 words
Tue2‑4 pm6500 words
Wed10‑11 am91,600 words

Schedule your most demanding drafting sessions during the top‑tier slots. Use low‑energy periods for lighter tasks (research, outlining, editing). Aligning work with natural rhythms removes the “I’m too tired to write” excuse entirely.


8. The “Zero‑Draft” Mindset

Perfectionism is the silent killer of motivation. Adopt a zero‑draft approach:

  1. Write anything—even nonsense.
  2. Label it “draft 0.”
  3. Commit to moving to draft 1 after a preset time (e.g., 30 minutes).

Because the goal is just to get something on the page, the inner critic stays quiet. Later you can sculpt, cut, and polish. The key is to remove judgment from the first pass; judgment belongs in revision, not creation.


9. Rituals that Signal “Start”

ritual is a repeatable, symbolic action that tells your brain: “It’s go‑time.” Some writers swear by:

  • Brewing a specific tea before the first paragraph.
  • Lighting a candle and reciting a single line of a favourite poem.
  • Doing a 2‑minute physical stretch or a short walk around the block.

Pick a ritual that takes less than five minutes—long enough to be meaningful, short enough not to become a procrastination loop. Consistency turns the ritual into a cue that bypasses decision fatigue.


10. The “Feedback Loop” of Intrinsic Rewards

External validation (likes, publication acceptance) is a nice bonus, but the real driver is an internal reward system:

  • Progress markers: Each 500‑word milestone triggers a small celebration (a piece of chocolate, a 5‑minute dance).
  • Narrative ownership: Remind yourself that the characters, arguments, or scenes belong to you—you are the creator, not a clerk.
  • Learning curve: Notice how each session adds a new skill (a tighter sentence, a more vivid metaphor). Celebrate that growth.

When you consciously notice these micro‑wins, dopamine floods the brain, reinforcing the habit loop without any external deadline.


TL;DR: Your Personal Motivation Blueprint

SecretHow to Activate
Purpose‑fuelWrite a mission card and keep it visible
Micro‑commitments5‑minute sprints with instant rewards
Story‑frame your dayTreat each block as a narrative scene
Sensory/environmental cuesConsistent sound, scent, and space
Social magnetismBuddy system, streaks, or live‑stream writing
Future‑self visualizerPaint a vivid picture of the finished piece
Energy alignmentWrite during natural high‑energy windows
Zero‑draft mindsetRemove judgment from the first pass
Start ritualsSimple, repeatable cues (tea, stretch, candle)
Intrinsic feedback loopCelebrate progress, skill gain, ownership

Closing Thought

Motivation isn’t a mysterious force that appears only when a deadline looms. It’s a network of tiny, repeatable habits and mental tricks that you can design, test, and refine. The moment you start treating writing as a system—rather than a solitary act—you’ll find that the words begin to flow even on the days when the muse seems to be on holiday.

Give yourself permission to experiment with the tools above. Pick one (perhaps the mission card) and commit to it for a week. Then add another. Before long you’ll have assembled a custom‑built engine that powers your writing, deadline or no deadline.

Happy writing! 🚀

365 Days of writing, 2026 – 57

Day 57 – Can your interests as a writer interest others

Does Writing About What You Think and Feel Capture Readers’ Attention?


Introduction: The Age‑Old Paradox

We live in an era of endless content—tweets, TikToks, newsletters, podcasts, and blog posts flood every corner of the internet. Yet, despite the sheer volume, the pieces that rise to the top often share a surprising commonality: they are personal.

But does baring your thoughts and emotions really interest others, or are we just indulging in a form of digital diary? In this post, I’ll dig into the psychology behind vulnerability, explore data from the world of content marketing, and give you concrete strategies to turn your inner monologue into magnetic copy that resonates with readers.


1. The Science of “Self‑Disclosure”

Psychological InsightWhat It Means for Writers
The Social Mirror Effect – People are wired to assess themselves against others’ experiences.Readers automatically compare your feelings to their own, creating instant relevance.
Neurochemical Reward – Sharing personal stories releases oxytocin, the “bonding hormone,” in both speaker and listener.Your authenticity can literally make readers feel more connected and trust you.
Reciprocity Principle – When someone reveals something personal, we feel compelled to respond in kind.A genuine confession can spark comments, shares, and even user‑generated content.

Bottom line: Human brains are primed to gravitate toward authentic, emotionally‑charged narratives. When you write about what you think or feel, you’re tapping into a built‑in neurological shortcut that draws people in.


2. When Vulnerability Becomes a Strategic Asset

2️⃣️⃣ Case Study: The “Storytelling” Blog that Grew 400% in Six Months

The Situation: A lifestyle blog that traditionally stuck to listicles (“10 Ways to Save Money”) saw stagnant traffic.

The Pivot: The editor started a weekly column called “My Messy Monday” where she wrote openly about procrastination, imposter syndrome, and even a failed attempt at a vegan diet.

The Results

MetricBeforeAfter (6 mo)
Avg. Time on Page1:453:20
Social Shares150/mo1,200/mo
Email Sign‑Ups200/mo1,050/mo
Comments per Post1278

Why it worked: Readers saw a real person behind the brand, felt validated in their own struggles, and were motivated to engage.

3️⃣ Data Point: The “Emotions‑Driven Content” Study (HubSpot, 2023)

  • 70% of consumers say they would purchase from a brand that “shares personal stories.”
  • 56% of B2B decision‑makers say they prefer vendors who “show their human side.”
  • 45% of top‑performing blog posts contain at least one personal anecdote.

These numbers confirm that authenticity isn’t just a feel‑good add‑on; it’s a measurable driver of engagement.


3. The Risks: Oversharing vs. Insightful Sharing

RiskWarning SignsMitigation
Oversharing – Dumping raw diary entries without context.Lengthy, rambling posts; limited take‑away.Keep a clear purpose: What should the reader learn or feel?
Self‑Centricity – Making the post only about you, no relevance to the audience.No mention of the reader’s problem or desire.Use the “you‑first” formula: I felt X → which means you might experience Y → here’s how to handle it.
Emotional Exhaustion – Constantly mining personal trauma can be draining.Writer feels drained, readers notice lack of enthusiasm.Schedule “self‑care” posts (e.g., reflections) vs. “value‑add” posts (e.g., actionable tips).

4. How to Turn Your Thoughts & Feelings into Reader‑Magnet Content

✅ Step 1 – Identify the Universal Core

Every personal story contains a universal thread (fear, ambition, love, failure). Ask yourself: What human need does this illustrate?

Example: “I’m terrified of public speaking.” → Universal core = fear of judgment.

✅ Step 2 – Add a Tangible Takeaway

Readers value both the emotional connection and a concrete benefit. Pair the feeling with a lesson, tip, or resource.

Format: “I felt ___ → Here’s the three‑step method that helped me ___.”

✅ Step 3 – Use the “Show, Don’t Tell” Technique

Instead of saying “I was anxious,” describe the physical sensations, the inner dialogue, or the environment.

Bad: “I was anxious.”
Good: “My heart raced, my palms slick, and the cursor blinked on an empty email draft.”

✅ Step 4 – Invite Interaction

End with a call‑to‑action that encourages readers to share their own experiences.

“What’s one moment you turned a fear into a win? Drop a comment below—I’ll reply to every story!”

✅ Step 5 – Edit for Balance

After the first draft, trim any sections that don’t serve the reader’s journey. Aim for a 70/30 split: 70% value, 30% personal narrative.


5. Sample Outline: A Mini‑Blog Post on “Why I Write About My Failures”

SectionPurpose
Hook – A vivid anecdote (e.g., “The night I missed my deadline and watched my inbox explode…”)Grab attention instantly
Feelings – Raw emotions (panic, embarrassment)Humanize the author
Universal Insight – “Everyone fears making a mistake that’s public.”Connect with reader
Lesson – 3 strategies you used to recover (communication, time‑boxing, post‑mortem)Provide actionable value
Reflection – How the failure reshaped your approach to workShow growth
CTA – “What’s the biggest professional mishap you’ve turned into a lesson?”Prompt engagement

6. Frequently Asked Questions

QuestionShort Answer
Will sharing personal opinions alienate readers?Only if the opinion is presented without empathy. Frame it as your perspective, invite dialogue, and respect differing views.
Can I write about feelings without being “emotional”?Absolutely. Pair emotional honesty with clear logic—explain why the feeling matters and how it influences actions.
Is it okay to disclose sensitive topics (e.g., mental health)?Yes, if you’re comfortable and it serves a purpose. Add a disclaimer and, when appropriate, provide resources for readers who might be triggered.

7. The Bottom Line

Writing about what you think and feel **does interest others—**but only when you turn that raw material into meaningful content. Authenticity is the magnet; relevance, structure, and actionable insight are the steel that holds it in place.

Your next post should be a two‑part equation:

(Personal Thought + Universal Feeling) × (Clear Takeaway + Invitation to Share) = Reader Engagement

Give it a try today. Write that honest paragraph you’ve been holding onto, shape it with the framework above, and watch the comments roll in.


Ready to Test the Theory?

If you’ve ever wondered whether your own musings could spark conversation, hit the Publish button now and share a snippet in the comments below. I’ll read each one and reply with a quick “read‑ability” score—just for fun!

Happy writing, and remember: your voice is the bridge that connects you to the world.

Searching for locations: Port Macquarie – Day 1 – Part 1

In keeping with the new travel plan, we are picking places in Australia, where we can exchange our timeshare week.

Some people consider timeshares as a waste of time and money, and the process of getting one is very painful, which it can be. 

Certainly, in some of the places we have gone, they tried hard to sell you another which can be a downside to staying, but the fact we get to stay in a three-bedroom fully kitted apartment of bungalow for $200 for the week far outweighs the small inconveniences.

Previously, we stayed at Coffs Harbour, but this time, we decided to stay at Port Macquarie.

Our bungalow, as they are called, is on the edge of the lagoon, which has an island and has been stocked with fish, though I doubt we would be allowed to go fishing in it.

For the more adventurous, there are canoes.  I think I would prefer the BBQ, and watch the planes taking off and landing at the airport just on the other side of the tree line on the other side of the lagoon.

At least they are only smaller planes like the De Havilland Dash 8.

And, knowing the airport was only minutes away, we dropped in for a quick photo op and got the following

What I learned about writing – Don’t give up your day job

OK, I know some of you do, and lock yourself away until the next bestseller is written, but that’s only an option if you saved up a million dollars so you could take the year off.

And if you are like me, you’d probably be out partying every day rather than put words on paper. Sometimes it is easier to just party.

However, for the more serious of us, our day job could work in our favour in several ways. Firstly, it gives us time away from the project so that we can dwell on how the story might progress the moment we get back in the door at home.

Besides that, the job may be so utterly stultifying that you can have the time to work through plotting and planning during the day, and writing by night.

There again, you might have exactly the job that provides the inspiration for writing the story, and it is very useful.

That aspect worked for me because I was in the exact place that was a company like the one I was writing about, in a remote location, on an island with isolation and native people. And I had photos of the operations running since 1898.

All the more reason to seriously consider whether or not to give up your day job.

Oh, and there is one other thing. If you’re not living with your parents, you still need to pay the bills.